Confronting the Unconscious Psyche
In 2018, an Ayahuasca ceremony opened my eyes to a profound and unsettling aspect of the male psyche. This experience led me to ponder deeply about the underlying reasons for the continued oppression of women by men, manifested in gender inequality, chauvinism, sexual harassment, and assault. This blog post delves into these complex and often hidden psychological factors.
At the core of this issue lies a ‘bad weed’ in the male unconscious. This aspect is so deeply buried and unacknowledged that most men are unaware of its existence. Even those who recognize it often find themselves too ashamed to confront or discuss it, be it with their male peers, professionals, or female partners.
This hidden part of the male psyche is intricately linked to their sexual identity and perceptions of women, particularly mother figures. For instance, if a man were confronted with an erotic image of a woman from the neck down, his primal reaction might be one of arousal. However, if he realizes that this woman is a younger version of his mother, the ensuing shame and conflict would be immense. This hypothetical scenario highlights the unconscious sexual desires and taboos deeply ingrained in the male psyche.
The maternal figure, a symbol of nurturing and care, becomes paradoxically intertwined with sexual desire in the male unconscious. This creates a profound internal conflict, particularly evident in situations like public breastfeeding, where the nurturing aspect of the female body is perceived in a sexual context. Men’s discomfort in such scenarios is a manifestation of their inability to reconcile these conflicting views of women as both sexual beings and nurturing figures.
This psychological conflict extends to how men perceive their mothers as sexual beings and caregivers. Unable to address or express these complex feelings, men might unconsciously project these emotions onto other women, viewing them through a lens tainted by their unresolved issues with maternal figures. Thus, women who embody aspects of sexuality or nurturing often become targets for male aggression or oppression.
Confronting this deep-seated issue requires a willingness among men to introspect and acknowledge these hidden aspects of their psyche. It is a challenging but necessary journey towards understanding and ultimately changing the unconscious motivations behind gender-based oppression. By facing these uncomfortable truths, men can begin to heal and foster healthier relationships with both themselves and women.
Morgan O. Smith
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