
Unraveling the Boundaries of Existence
If all that exists is what we call the Self, where does that leave us in understanding its true nature? The common impulse is to label, define, and separate — creating distinctions to grasp what cannot be fully grasped. But in contemplating the nature of the Self as the all-encompassing reality, we’re drawn into a profound paradox: if the Self is indeed everything, without any boundary, how can it even be considered a “Self”?
The word “Self” implies some form of individuation, a presence that stands distinct from others, yet here lies the core of the paradox. In the absence of an “other,” any idea of a distinct Self dissolves, leaving only the mystery of the No-Self.
For a Self to be recognizable as such, it would require something to stand apart from. But in the context of ultimate unity, where nothing exists outside or beyond, there is only what is — an undivided totality that transcends any dualistic notion of “Self” and “other.” This is where the very term “Self” falls away, as there can be no contrast, no relational identity. What we are left with is not a Self in any ordinary sense but rather pure awareness, the ground of being that defies description and categorization.
When looked at from this perspective, the idea of the Self takes on a radically different dimension. It becomes the No-Self, not in the sense of an absence but rather as an absolute presence that simply is. The No-Self, then, is not the lack of being but the absence of individualization within being itself. It invites us to move beyond personal identity and to experience consciousness as boundless and indivisible, an endless ocean with no separate waves.
In moving toward an experiential understanding of this paradox, the concept of “I” transforms. We begin to see that this “I” — the egoic self we identify with — is a localized point in the vast field of undivided awareness. What we call “myself” is, in reality, an expression within the infinite whole, a momentary manifestation of something that transcends all individuality.
Such an insight does not negate our individual lives or diminish the importance of each unique expression. Rather, it invites a shift in perception. It calls us to recognize that beneath our individuality lies a vastness, a timeless ground that is beyond any single label or limitation.
As we touch on this insight, we find that the paradox of Self and No-Self begins to dissolve. We see that they are not separate but interwoven, expressions of the same reality, which is beyond both. In embracing the No-Self, we open ourselves to a greater depth, where the boundaries of identity soften, and the beauty of unity comes alive in ways beyond conceptual thought.
Morgan O. Smith
Yinnergy Meditation, Spiritual Life Coaching & My Book, Bodhi in the Brain…Available Now!


