
The Space Between Extremes
In the quiet of existence, where dualities converge and distinctions fade, lies a profound stillness. This is not a void of absence but a vibrant presence, where the very essence of being unfolds beyond the boundaries of self. In this space, there is a deep, unwavering serenity, a stillness that remains untouched by the oscillations of life’s extremes.
To truly understand this stillness, one must transcend the conventional notion of self. It is not about fortifying the ego or creating a resilient identity; rather, it is the realization that the ‘me’ we cling to is an illusion. The self, as we know it, is but a construct of the mind, shaped by experiences, memories, and societal influences. When we see through this illusion, we discover that there is nothing that can be broken or shaken.
Imagine the ocean. The surface may be turbulent, whipped by winds and storms, but the depths remain calm, undisturbed by the chaos above. Similarly, when we identify with the deeper currents of our being, the surface disturbances lose their power. This is not a passive state of detachment but an active engagement with life from a place of profound inner peace.
This realization is the crux of many spiritual traditions. In nonduality, the self is seen as an expression of the universal consciousness, not separate from it. The dissolution of the individual ego leads to a direct experience of unity with all that is. It is a state where the observer and the observed merge, where the boundaries of ‘me’ and ‘not me’ dissolve.

Such a perspective transforms how we navigate life’s challenges. Without the burden of a fragile ego to protect, we can face adversity with equanimity. The fear of failure, rejection, or loss diminishes because there is no ‘self’ to defend. Instead, we move through life with grace and acceptance, recognizing that every experience is a manifestation of the same underlying reality.
In practical terms, this understanding invites us to cultivate mindfulness and presence. By observing our thoughts and emotions without attachment, we begin to see them for what they are—fleeting phenomena passing through the vastness of our true nature. Meditation and contemplative practices can help us deepen this awareness, guiding us back to the stillness that lies at the heart of our being.
This journey is not about achieving a state of perfection but embracing the wholeness of our existence. It is about recognizing that the stillness we seek is already within us, always accessible, always present. By resting in this space between extremes, we find a source of strength and peace that transcends all conditions.

In the end, the realization that there is no ‘me’ to break or shake is profoundly liberating. It allows us to engage with life fully, without fear or resistance. We become like the still point in the turning world, unmovable and unbreakable because we have transcended the very notion of a separate self.
Morgan O. Smith
Yinnergy Meditation, Spiritual Life Coaching & My Book, Bodhi in the Brain…Available Now!











